Time and location is important. Try to have some private time together, you seem to concentrate on family time but what about you and w time? Is it possible for you guys to get away for a weekend with no D?
Exactlly !!! I was laying in bed this morning thinking, family time, movie time, we must make some H & W time.
Anyway when W woke up and I brought her meds and a cup of water I told her we need to have a semi serious chat, striaght away she said, "I was really tired last night". I just said the chat won't be too deep we just need to talk a liitle bit about what our expectations are for the weekend. So we we'll se how that goes.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Sex seems to be an important issue for your W if she uses it for punishment. Could that be her LL? Even if you don't believe it could be, think about it. Why would anyone use it for punishment if they didn't think it is very important? Unless she thought she could control you with it because it is your LL.
Sex seems to be important to W but she has managed to keep that fact hidden from me. She knows that I'm "hot blooded" and touch is my LL, and from the very early day she's used thaat to try and control me. But all thats done is push me away. If I look at how she reacted to that, she's upped things a level and gave it away to someone else to try to regain control. Somthing I would never have thought possible. Well lots for us to talk about there.
Originally Posted By: Kalni
Is it possible for you guys to get away for a weekend with no D?
We've been discussing this, we'll come up with somthing soon.
Finally, I'm feeling good overall, things are going well, I just feel I need to have some more open discussions with W where she can let me know what her fears and concerns are.
