I am drinking coffee now (10:45!!!!!). (I haven't rested so much since I had my son, when my H takes the kids I feel I am at college again!!).
Sometimes, back in the good old days, I would fall asleep too watching TV, Ok my H didn't mind but it bothered me. With the 2 kids running around all day I felt I should stay awake longer just to be with him. And I honestly tried but I couldn't. I was so tired I couldn't keep my eyes open. Lately (still good old times), he was initiating sex around 3 in the morning after we both had a couple of hours of good sleep and it worked. So, after a while this was like our own private time (3-5 in the morning).
Then I realise I had been missing FE (iron?). And that makes you really tired and sleepy all the time. So I got on a simple treatment, was eating better and my energy levels came back to normal again. Have you thought of things like that?
Sex seems to be an important issue for your W if she uses it for punishment. Could that be her LL? Even if you don't believe it could be, think about it. Why would anyone use it for punishment if they didn't think it is very important? Unless she thought she could control you with it because it is your LL. Women are weird about sex. I know that. It could be a very small detail that you are missing that doesn't complete the picture in her head. Time and location is important. Try to have some private time together, you seem to concentrate on family time but what about you and w time? Is it possible for you guys to get away for a weekend with no D?
Finally, how are you FEELING? (I hope you do not mind me asking).
