Punk, I think you are understanding what you are supposed to do. If staying put is what you think your family needs, and you know it does no harm to your family, then you should rest easy.
Sleeper put it extremely well when he shared his experience. This is not to say that the course of action could be the opposite. I believe at times we need to learn patience, make decisions based upon the right reasons and understand that the love of our life may be upset with us...for the time being. Eventually, they will understand and appreciate that we were the rock for the family.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
