I've got to respond to missmyfriend's question, hope it helps.
Early in this crisis, after moving to a place of my own which is very quiet when the kids are not with me, I believe I was able to "hear" answers to my prayers. This is what I heard:
"Have patience"
"This had to happen"
"Do what Jesus expects of you"
I also heard a specific answer to my prayer, "what should I do"? The answer........
"Do nothing"
The last is the one I have struggled with the most.
As far as the house goes I understand where you're coming from. If you can keep it and provide as much stability for your children as possible, I say go for it. They need as much stability as we can provide right now, your W's feelings are secondary by comparison.
Last edited by sleeper; 02/10/0804:35 AM.
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13