Punktmann,

I've got to respond to missmyfriend's question, hope it helps.

Early in this crisis, after moving to a place of my own which is very quiet when the kids are not with me, I believe I was able to "hear" answers to my prayers. This is what I heard:

"Have patience"

"This had to happen"

"Do what Jesus expects of you"

I also heard a specific answer to my prayer, "what should I do"? The answer........

"Do nothing"

The last is the one I have struggled with the most.

As far as the house goes I understand where you're coming from. If you can keep it and provide as much stability for your children as possible, I say go for it. They need as much stability as we can provide right now, your W's feelings are secondary by comparison.

Last edited by sleeper; 02/10/08 04:35 AM.

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13