Choc eyes, you are right, I need to set boundaries and enforce them consistently which I have not done. I have to admit I was pretty stunned with the whole weekend trip and did not have any plan in place. This is probably a stupid question, but what kind of negative consequences do you think would be appropriate for this? I mean I use them all the time with my kids, but taking away TV time or computer time probably isn't going to work with my H!!!
What would you suggest? As you know, the 2 problems I've had so far now have been H texting OW and now his weekend trip. Keep in mind my sitch is much different than yours as I am a sahm and he is a lawyer. Karen43