Thanks, Lwb, Joie,

Keith definitely has his finger on this type of sitch.

I just got back from a dinner party (Italian pot-luck) with my friends in our DivorceCare group and their children. It was very enjoyable, and very tiring -- lasted a bit longer than my two S's cold handle. We're all zonked.

I need to turn in because of how sleepy I am now. But I will note that W called around her usual time, while I and S7 and S3 we're at the dinner party. Again, I said nothing to W, just gave the phone directly to my S's. I don't feel like talking to her myself right now.

I was able to discreetly relate some of these latest events to my comrades at tonight's get-together.

Also on the drive back I decided to swing by the residence -- W's car was not there, even though it was after 9:30 PM. But I know exactly where she is.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.