You deserve to be happy! Your friends here will be able to help you no matter what you decide...and you'll get support and great advice if you need it.
Take back the control!
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This sounds like what the friends of a WAS would say. But hey, who doesn't deserve to be happy? we all do!
(((((palgal))))) I'd thought of that, too, pal! And if my "plan" was to just give up, then I would be following the "easy way out" LBS script. But I'm hoping to get to the happiness through fixing this mess, and I think this is a necessary step to get there. If it doesn't work, I'm prepared for that, too, so I think it is time!