SH You do sound like you turned a corner I think it is a good place moving ahead..if H makes a shift or decides to knock you are there and will consider if not, well nothing we can do i think the DBing allows for us to maintain a friendship on a small level with our H in MLC without DB, we probably would have closed the door or they would have run so far from all the whining that no intersction would be possible DB keeps door open if H wnats to return It teaches us to GAL an dbe happy where we are preety important lesson i think for us stay strong peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow