You are right, facing the fear and dealing with it is the key.
Fear can paralyze.
Thinking of you, we have all been there and go back and visit it occassionally too.
Praying for you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11