Peace,

They all say what your H said.

How is he any different?

Do not believe anything he says.

Your intuition is good, follow it.

You are a smart woman.

My ex said he left me for the following reasons. His excuse changed every week and it also depended who he was talking to:

a. I did not cook organic
b. We argued all the time
c. I was mean
d. I dressed like a teenager
e. I did not love him like he needed to be loved
f. I was too judgmental
g. I took him for granted
h. I spent too much time with the kids
i. I did not have stars in my eyes when I looked at him
j. I did not run up to him and kiss him when he walked through
door.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11