She's Gone - No Contact

[MichelleLT]

Every person that runs from relationships and problems is generally dealing with some sort of identity crisis. Hers is about her sexuality. Not that different from any other sort of personal crisis I'd imagine.

Despite what you think, she will be curious and she may hear things from mutual friends or whatever. Furthermore, the PRIMARY goal of your changes should be to make yourself happy. Give her space to figure it out, you can't rush her process. So fulfill yourself in the meanwhile.