W2S, Thanks for popping by! He says I made him hire a L b/c he wanted to do this D without either one of us getting a L. He wanted to do it via HotDocs on the internet. Crazy I know. I was the one that insisted I wasn't going to sign anything without a L looking at it. So in essence to him it is MY fault.
Now he is fighting me for jurisdiction. For some unknown reason he says it is easier for the D to be in NJ, even though the kids live here and all their records of any kind will be here. He won't explain to me or his L why it's easier in NJ. My guess is just b/c he wants his way.