Thanks choc - appreciate all the advice you've been giving me.
Just out of curiousity, does anyone have any opinions on letting WAW stay in the house while you're away? I've asked her to stay in the house and watch the pets the last couple times I've left town, thinking it would help her remember what she's going to be losing. But she usually invites a bunch of our old friends over (who she regularly works with and I don't) - that makes me feel a little weird. There's also question of OM, who works nearby but lives an hour away. Don't know if she'd have him over here or not.
