Refuse To Lose, Part II

[AliSuddenly]

Hey RTL...as for the parents...my BF mum supported him in his decision, but when I saw her she burst into tears! They will support your W, but with a D involved, they must surely not be too pleased with her decision? I'm sure they do still like you, but it will be awkward for them tommorow, she is their D afterall.

Just an idea..can you cancel the cop for tommorow !?? Seems a bit heavy handed?? Cant you just trust her and her Dad to behave well? I dont really understand the need for the cop and it seems very sad. She didnt sound pleased about it either and you need to show her you've made changes, all that 180 stuff? Also, why not let her in the house, despite what your L said? Seems you need to behave in ways shes not expecting. If I were you, I'd be there on my own and just let her come and get her stuff. Despite the L advice!

As for being on your own, swallow your pride and ring a married mate. Arrange to go over, even for an hour or two, I know they are all M, but you will probs get tea and sympathy from their W and you need a bit of that!

Ali
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Me: 36
H: 34
LT: 9 years
ILYBINILWY: 2 Nov 07
Own apartment: 26 Jan 08