W sent a text this afternoon worried about her stuff and the police. I replied the police were there as a "neutral 3rd party" only.
She immediately called me and I decided to answer it because she knew I had it due to the text reply I had sent.
In any event, she asked why she couldn't go in the house b/c she's part owner. I told her, I was told not to let her in b/c she had left.
W: "That is not what my L told me." M: "That is what my L told me and that is why they need to talk."
I then told her "I don't want to do this but I have to legally to protect myself. Plus, I don't know what you've told your father, so I need a neutral witness present in case he's upset."
I added: "As far as me not contacting D, it isn't by choice but b/c I shouldn't be talking to you right now b/c we're involved in a legal dispute. Our Ls haven't talked w/ each other yet."
W: "You know, the longer this goes and the more things we can't settle b/t us, the more it is going to cost." M: "I'm aware of this."
W: "I don't understand. You know I'll be fair." M: "I don't know what to think right now, honestly. You also said I'd have a year and I got less than 6 months."
Silence for about a minute or more then she said she'd see me at 2 tomorrow.
So, that is where we left it. Her parents fly in tonight and I get to keep packing up her stuff and wonder when I get to see my girl.
I don't know if I was confrontational or not with her. I tried to stay non-committal about the R stuff, but I did mention the time frame change at the end, which probably should have been left out.
In any event, I'll send her a text telling my D goodnight and I love her and hello to her parents (I really, really like them, and they really like me as well -- or at least used to. Who really knows now?).
Other than that, I think I'm done with packing her stuff for tonight. Now I have to figure out what I'm going to do to GAL.
Talk to you later tonight? Who knows at this stage? I will check back b/c I'd like to get input on my conversation with the W.
