Originally Posted By: Kalni
Hi Liz,

Thanks for posting on my thread, I feel the same way. When I read your posts today, I thought I can't help Liz tonight. We are on the same planet it seems.
But still I got an idea: you keep mentioning EA#1 & 2. Are you sure, that is right? Because if there are 2 I wouldn't worry. These EA seem to be a one-on-one thing. So exclusive they leave us Ss out. How can both play a role in his life. Was the one after the other?
You know how it goes, slowly and painfully (s$$$t!) I can't be of much help. Keep in touch, sometimes I lose you for a number of hours/days and I get worried...

L
Kalni

PS. At least our Hs are good fathers (for the time being).


EA#1 is a bigger threat. She is H's "best friend." H calls her everyday as soon as he drops D off at school. It is always at least a 30min convo. H works w/ her and travels w/ her although he doesn't see her everyday. EA#2 works w/ h too. H doesn't talk to her as much but H keeps stuff about her a secret. I am pretty sure she was on the trip this week but H didn't tell me that. Some of the texts she sent in the past indicated she had feelings for H. So basically they are both going on but #1 is more intense. Don't know if they know about each other.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1