Kimmie, You can send it, but will it sink into him? It's hard to reach WAS. A lot of times they're referred to as aliens on this board as they become different people entirely.
Perhaps you could look at it this way, what harm would it do? Will it do you any good? Do you think it will have the opposite effect? I'm sure it will make you feel better even if it has no effect on him.
Perhaps it depends on how strong his faith is? Is he close to Father in your church?
