Mopsey, The only way that he can manipulate you is if you allow it. I seriously doubt that he's doing that, but it doesn't hurt to stay on your toes.
I'm sure what your daughter told your h about not living there, stung. Well...in a way he stepped into her zone. He may listen to what she said and think about it again later. Time will tell on that one.
As for him looking tired, as well he should be, i.e., up all hours of the night, trying to burn the candle at both ends. It's not easy doing this. I don't think the mow has anything to do w/his odd behavior right now.
Keep the focus on you and your children!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
