Examples of the former: "family day" and "TV night". For the latter you'd have to go a "problem" at a time - for example, the problem of W falling asleep in front of the TV. Have you considered moving the TV to the bedroom?
We have a TV in the bedroom and on some occasions we have watched movies there, but the net effect is the same. W falls asleep.
Actually now I think about it I could use this as the topic for our first not so serious R talks. How to enjoy the movies and me not get upset by W falling asleep.