You told me that we could go to church and sit together so I was wondering if you would like to join me at church tomorrow. I have been attending regularly with my head held high, and I find it very helpful as I have not broken my sacramental vows through infidelity, nor do I feel like a hypocrite when I say grace over my meals.
I have been feeling a lot better lately since I have been adhering to the tenets of our faith. I think it would be helpful if you and I could make time to speak with Father John as a couple. He has helped me more than you will ever know just one on one. I have come to realize that our church views divorce as an abomination, and I am agreeable to any counseling they have to offer.
I will not give up on us, nor will I feel that we are done until we have availed ourselves of everything that our faith has to offer us in the way of reconciliation.
You and I entered the church and were baptized together; you and I were married in front of that altar as one. I would hope that you would respect that enough to speak with our priest