I know it is not possible to get inside another person's head.
So right you are. Plus think of the mess in there!! I know you don't think you deserve to be cheated on, sorry if I implied that. I do know one of the MLCer's excuses is the marriage made me do it, at least in my H's case. He has often used the bad marriage excuse with me and others. I don't buy it. Yes there were things that could have been better, but then why not address them? Just doesn't add up.
My H has stepped through the looking glass as far as I can see. Think I will not follow.
