If H is in MLC you can't force him out of it, it will have to run its course. Yes, they call it a roller coaster ride because seeing come towards you and then retreating and our own emotions flip flopping. One day or hour wanting to just give up and the next staying the course. Hang in there, come here to let your frustrations out.
Whats you said to D about if it took daddy a really long time to come home, would it be worth it was great. It helps to show her there's a goal to the difficulties the two of you are experiencing.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
