Whining for it or demanding it, bad. Straightforwardly saying that you're starting to miss making love to her and that you'd really like to reconnect, good.
Yep, that's it.
I didn't realize (or I forgot) that she is on ADs. When I was on them my attitude about sex was different because they quieted the anxiety I had about things in general. The reasons I couldn't have sex suddenly seemed not as important, so I *felt* more interested in sex because of that, but the difference apparently was not discernable to cac. He doesn't recall our SL being any different then than at any other time and I honestly don't recall how it was. I just know how I felt, and that was more relaxed and not as anxious. So, maybe for a woman, ADs don't have to mean the end of a good SL if the R was in good shape before, or at least if the couple was working on it, like you were.
Hey, what's the latest on finding your bio mom/relatives? Is that what's unfolding?
