D10 had a friend over today who was supposed to go home at 11 which was when H was to come over. D wanted her fried to stay longer so I told her she had to call H and ask him. Of course H didn't answer. She tried 15min. later and got him. H said it was ok and he was running late.(again!) When H showed up I couldn't talk to him. I went to get my car out of the garage and the door wouldn't open. I tried to open w/ the emergency key but couldn't find it. H ended up telling me to take his car. When I got going there was a CD made by EA#1 who he claims as his best friend. The whole beginning was a bunch of love songs. Just what I as a married woman make for other married men.

I sent H the following text:

Me: Nice cd ur "friend" made u. Don't worry I figured out that u are done with me. I know there are other people more important to u.

H: Before you go reading too muc into a cd you may want to listen to the whole thing...you'll find tout there's no theme.

Me: Maybe, but as long as EA#1 and EA#2(I used their names) are a part of ur life i mean nothing.

H: I will continue to disagree with that.

Me: I want to believe u but u keep so many secrets.

No reply to that.

H texted me when he got the garage open. Also about burning a CD for my boss that I asked if he would do. Got home and showed him shirts I bought him. H showed me shoes he bought in CA. Now he is at church w/ D15. No mention of my text. H will probably say nothing of it. We will have to wait and see what happens next.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
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