So basically does everyone seem to think my situation is hopeless? Most everyone that has posted here seem to think: H wants the marriage over or the comments seem pretty negative.
Karen, Every sitch is different. And, what each of us is willing to take or put up with or how much patience we have is different, too. Only you can make that decision. And if that time comes, you'll know it.
They do say most A's burn out after a few months. You still have some time with the house. If you want to give it all you have until that time, then go for it. It's up to you when to throw in the towel.
If you're getting along pretty well, that's good. But for him to blatantly announce he was off this weekend with OW is a horrible thing to do to you. I hope I didn't come off too strong before, that really made me mad! If you're ok with it, fine. But if not, perhaps you can consider setting up some boundaries with him. You've already talked about him texting OW in front of you. Just a thought...
