If I could go back in time I would, but as Michelle says you can not change the past you can only effect the future, or something like that.
Exactly, but by not cutting ties with OM, how is this going to effect your future? It sounds like you want to try to work things out with your husband but yet you CAN'T do that with OM still in the picture. What are you waiting for? What is it you really want?
