I should have known that something was coming. Something always does when I start to feel good again...
Today I got a certified letter from STBX's L. They are filing in NJ for me to be served by alternate means (certified mail). He is even requesting that I PAY HIS ATTY FEES!!!! He says that I made him hire a L because I didn't just accept service from him and that I willfully avoided the process server.
I think he must be trying to find every way possible to make me dispise him. He's doing a good job.
Oh, he got the date we were married and both kids year they were born wrong. And they misspelled my name. FREAK.
I just talked to him yesterday and he seemed like a decent human. TODAY I need to be REALLY FREAKING MAD at him.
I called my L and I am forwarding the papers to her. I will probably have to hire a L in NJ now. My L said she will review the papers and let me know. She said if they are trying to push this through in Jersey that is really low since we have a jurisdictional issue in the courts already. STBX is trying to file for Default. My L said technically we could do that since STBX hasn't responded to my petition filed in AZ but that it is unethical since we have the jurisdiction issue.
