Sue, Thanks for the well wishes. I knew coming here would help, I was on the other side of the coin a couple of years ago, and I THOUGHT that we had things worked out. Obviously not. Back then everyone here was of a great support so I figured to come back when I KNEW I needed to do something about the R that I have. As for being offended don't worry about that I deserve any 'slamming' that I get from this. I know that most of it is coming out of furstration about the sitch that is going on around you or anybody else. Like I said been there done that. I know I should not drag it out any longer with the OM, but in all honesty I have not been making anytime for him. That is what is making it dificult to break things off. I have had very little contact with him over the last couple of weeks. I know it may sound like I am making excusses, maybe I am, but I do want it ended by the time that H and I get into C. So there is a definate dead line, Feb 20th, and I do want a little bit of time between the time that I do break things off and the appt.
