Yes. I've noticed a shift in how I feel after sex. I usually feel more bonded and close afterwards than I used to feel.
Thank you! My recent observation in the field has confirmed it.
When she's not really in the mood, my first reaction is to back off and wait, for fear that she'd get annoyed with me. And sometimes that's the right thing to do, depending on what's going on in her life. But then sometimes the best thing to do is come right out and say something like "it's been entirely too long, I'm starting to get sexually frustrated, and you and I both know you'll enjoy the hell out of it after about ten minutes." Of course I didn't do that until after I snapped at her (although I caught myself right away), but it still ended up working out. And she did feel closer to me afterwards, which was one of the things I was looking for and I'm glad you reminded me that it was likely to happen if I pushed a little.
Whining for it or demanding it, bad. Straightforwardly saying that you're starting to miss making love to her and that you'd really like to reconnect, good.
They did up her AD dosage, which I totally forgot about, and she said it is having an effect on her and making it take longer for her to get in the mood, but she's still "feeling me" as they say on TV.
(One of these days I'm going to drop another big novel on y'all. But not yet. It's still unfolding...)
Last edited by Crazy Eddie; 02/09/0808:14 PM.
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