and we actually are getting along great 99% of the time, but you are right, he totally treats me with disrespect because of this affair.
Getting along great, when he is HOME...not out spending weekends with OW. That makes me mad.
I think there is always hope for any situation like this. My H has said things in the past that he 'takes' back now, but he still wants out. I believe this now, even though he hasn't taken steps to move out/get an atty. He is here for the kids, and to be with them until the very end. Not for me.
Doing his laundry? Wanting his favorite shirts for his adultery?? Karen43....what would you tell a friend that did this? Wishing him to be safe? Yes? Helping him pack for a trip with OW, when you are still married? No.
