I was just thinking about the conversation H and I had about his parents.

I asked him why haven't his parents reached out to me. Why haven't they spoken to me..I told H I needed clarity and closure on that because It was one of the most hurtful experiences.

H said that when he was s angry at me , he would vent to them. He had noone else to vent to. H said he told his mom to stop speaking to me .

H said it is them , not him. They are not me,,he said.

i said they are a part of you. H said again that that was them , not him.

I expressed to him how hurt I was by that.

H again said he didnt know and couldnt answer me.

Interesting...