I hear you. Was feeling like I needed to validate her but screw it. I'm getting more and more apathetic about this whole thing. In waves, anyway. I've got lots of stuff going on and all she does is work - she's not looking like such an attractive person to be around right now.

Still feel like I need to answer her questions with "Let me think" or "I'm confused", just to keep from getting into that reactive space where I start to over-explain or persuade. lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08