Well, I did ask H if he worked yesterday. He looked at me like I was crazy. He said, No, I told you I wasn't going to. I asked what he did. Again, the crazy look. I told you that me and 4 other guys were doing a community service project in (Town nearby). HUH??? I just told him that he'd mentioned the one a few weeks ago, but he did not tell me about this one. I gently reminded him that I have a very good memory and I wouldn't question him if he'd told me. No big deal. No argument or anything from either of us. Thankfully no job loss for him either. As much as I think H needs to start hitting bottom, him losing his job at this time would not be good. And yes, I know the community service deal sounds like it could be an excuse. I was more concerned that he'd lost his job than where he'd been at because I couldn't change where he was & who he was with.
I did have a good morning. My dad came in town to get his taxes done by an old family friend. We met for breakfast and then he headed home. Funny...I got up and started getting ready. Here came the questions....where are you going, what are you doing afterward....etc.
Need to take advantage of the quiet time this weekend. I'd love a nap but I need to get some things done around here. Oh yeah, I need to figure out my checkbook......seems H is short on money because he didn't meet even the lowest bonus level and he needs my help to buy our groceries. If it were anything else I'd probably balk at it, but it is a necessity.
Have a great day everyone!
Last edited by SueS; 02/09/0805:09 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day