why do guys usually move out when women want out (IN MY CASE AND A FEW OTHERS???) Is it because we don't want to naplam the earth????
I'm one of those staying in the house so I probably shouldn't answer.....however, it's my H that decided to leave. I think more women stay in the house if they are the custodial parent. I don't believe the wife should always be the custodial parent. In your case your wife does not seem like the most stable parent. I would think you could have a strong case for "keeping the kids", but I know you are thinking what would be best for them. What do you think they would want to do?
