Yes, she's going to VN and Thailand! I heard about the Vietnam trip from D17 yesterday when I called. No mention from W.

I'm thinking about putting it out here in another email to her, just like the last one where I just TOLD her, I was putting money away. D17 cannot be near W. because of their volatile R. AND D17 being out of control, so it seems like W. is sending her off until school can start in the fall. There's easier and less expensive ways. Unfortunately, I handed over all of my incvome for 22 years to W. She did a great job managing our income, and why would I get involved....we were maried, right? WHAT COULD GO WRONG! Financially, I'm an idiot. I have a lot of other abilites, but not that one.

Opinions on another email? I don't really care anymore about pushing her over any edge. She's either there or not. It's NOW about me and my kids, and if I have to go back to a garage apartment, I won't be good to ANYONE! I've already called and applied for an apratment about 10 minutes from our house, but once again, why do guys usually move out when women want out (IN MY CASE AND A FEW OTHERS???) Is it because we don't want to naplam the earth????

Last edited by FLTC; 02/09/08 04:33 PM.