Karen, You did his laundry for him! No way would I have done that!! If he wanted it, he could have done it. Especially knowing what he would be doing this weekend. This weekend with OW is totally wrong. You are still married. Your H is so disrespectful of you. That makes me so mad for you!
We all know our own limits, and I put up with a lot when my Hs A was still going on, but if he had announced he was taking a trip with her while still in our house, his crap would have been on the lawn when he got home!
Honestly, it does not sound like your H wants your M. If I were you I would take steps to protect yourself and your kids. DB for you and them, not him. You deserve someone who will respect you and treat you respect, too.
My H, too, spent lots of $$ on OW while the A was going on. After I found out about it, I figured up, on average what he was spending and was SHOCKED! Definitely keep track of what you can.
