You sound like you've come to a decision you can live with. That's really important. I don't think it's about "gold digging" as much as you can no longer count on his doing anything he may say (and that in the past you could believe). When you D7 needs things (including college money), I know he says he'll at least "help" take care of it, but will he? Can you really count on it? This is totally a business decision. You are doing well with making it.
Peace and Grace I do think also it is the right decision for D7 and I.
I feel good about it.
I cant even get a grip of who H really is. It is not my job too. I have seen so many different sides of him since we have started talking again. It is up and down. It is strange.
I texted H to see how the dogs were. Remember, they have not been with him in over two yrs. H left almost 2 and a half yrs ago. But filed 2 yrs ago on the 14th. I was nervous for them.
So H texted back "Fine" WEll I texted back alright great
So later I get a text: U owe me 3.00 for the wonton soup.i'll tel my attorney.
Why am I writing such nonsense?
Because I think it is NUTS how he is joking NOW about the situation.
A different side of him. I was not comfortable with H in my house. I now know why it was because he was uncomfortable, almost like he didnt know how to relax.
Interesting..well all I know is I have grown. I am at a great place now. And I owe it to this situation. See, WE need stuff like this to happen to us, to get us out of the rut.
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