I believe that your situation has hope. As a man who is almost 20 years older than you, please take my advice.
You and your wife are very young to have so much responsibility. She is probably questioning her decision to marry early and start a family, that's ok. You sound like a GREAT guy, very responsible and loving, I am sure she recognizes that.
SHE IS SAYING THAT SHE DOES NOT WANT A DIVORCE - DO NOT PUSH HER THERE.
Give her some space, let her think things through and in time she will most likely come back to you. For now, rely on your parents for support.
