Are you ok? I'm so sorry about how you must be feeling. I've been there too. Whether or not we should believe what they're saying - I don't know. Do we trust our gut or is the person we married and think we still know completely gone?
My H is also following in his dad's footsteps. Makes me want to just smack him upside the head.
Listen to what Upside says. Hang in there and give it some more time. The great thing is that you really don't have to do anything at all. Just live your life and deal with H if and when he's ever willing to work on your M again. We're right here with you.
*Also - I would think that any sane person going about this the right way would say something to their children like 'I'll always love mommy, just not the same' instead of saying he doesn't love you anymore. Who's he trying to convince?
