Well, H called me yesterday. I didn't pick up the phone just let it go to voice mail. My friend was very proud of me for that. H still hasn't gotten HR to correctly separate his check so H had to call me to see about transferring his share of his check. I did as he asked and just left him a voice message telling him that I had transferred the money and to have a nice weekend (in the sweetest voice I could muster).
How do you survive when H is living with OW? He's all happy go lucky while I'm at home taking care of the house, kids, bills, etc. and he's out having the time of his life with his fantasy girl! How do I continue while he's doing this and try to be happy? It really gets to me sometimes.
How long have some of you endured this behavior? Sometimes I think I should just listen to one of my sisters in law and some of my friends and just pack it in and let him have his life and go on about my own life. But, I just can't I love my H. I want my old H back not the teenage, juvenile A$$hole.
He has shurked his "physical" responsibilities to his S's. He rarely talks to S19, talks to S15 more often but rarely sees either of them. I tried to explain to him that they just need him around. He doesn't have to interact with them they just need the security of knowing that Dad is there for them when they need him. He's taken away so much of their security and happiness. How can anyone do this to his own children?
S15 is taking his ACT test today so I'm going to go walk in the park by the University while he takes his test. It's a beautiful day here!
I believe that slowly but surely I am getting stronger. I just wish I could lose some weight! I've been working out regularily but I need to watch my diet much closer. It would make me feel REALLY good if I lost weight and H finally noticed me.
