NoCode, Holy cow, she's been busted big time! Beware, her attitude may get even worse!
I just don't get these WAS and their 'how great I am' attitudes, their blame shifting, harboring of ill feelings, etc. All these ill-feelings and bad attitudes are so counter-productive. Why can't they see that?
I think getting counseling for the sake of the children is a great idea. You still have to be parents no matter what. She's not even willing to do that!? But just as it takes two to determine the marriage dynamic, it takes two to make a good -- or bad -- divorce. Is that what she really wants?
(((HUGS))) -- you can't say you didn't try. You're right up there with LWB in the DBing your butt off category. Take care of yourself this weekend. It's time to focus on you and your sons.
