Worried I found DB too late

[minkerman]

You also have to tailor the info to your own situation, DR isn't always a black-and-white foolproof plan! As said above, if something which appears contrary to DR principles seems to be working - do it.

For instance, my W moved out Dec 27. DR says don't initiate contact, no R talks. Well, that was working well up to about a week ago. Recently, initiating contact was the right thing to do. And during those times, we have had some awesome heart to heart talks about where "we" are going.

So, stay aware of the day-to-day changes, try to do something away from home, and once again, do a 180.

There are great 180 ideas in the 180 Forum, BTW.