Looking backward but only to move forward SEVEN

[Firekeeper]

hi sage,

whining is ok if you have a plan how to do it different next time and you are developing it)

a little one will be a consideration for a while in terms of time, energy, etc. so i wonder if you can use it as an asset for a husband's desire for quality time - to engage in the activities in the community or with friends where three of you are having fun (major requirement). i would imagine you are already doing it so may be to do it more or more fun ones, where you and your husband can laugh at each other and at the little one and then look at each other and be happy to parent together. when my kids were little i would find tons of fun staff in a local parent newspaper or through libraries or community centers, a lot of it was for free.