Looks like your rollercoaster has just taken a dip and your vulnerability is beginning to show, keep strong . It's good that Mr Nice guy has helped you with your work issues but it has to be kept at that despite all of the nice thing he's saying to you. It great to feel appreciated but we've got real work to do in other areas.
In my case I had family and friend commenting on how well I was looking and doing and that really boosted me, and it was them that let me know that know that I'd be ok if it didn't work out with W.
I'm reading back through you sitch to see if I can pick up anything as to why you H's attitude has changed, I'll get back to you on that
But as I said before keep strong, four weeks ago I was outside of W emotional circle of trust, but the speed of change I've seen lately has really surprised me. I'm sure the same can happen for you.
Lan
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing