I actually started C back in September, but the luck of the draw I pulled a C that was pretty clueless and a bit overwhelmed by my sitch and could not offer much advise or guidance. In fact when I told her about this DB site which I had just found she seemed pretty intrigued and made lots of notes and promised to use it with her future clients.
W is very reluctant to go to MC and shes not really interested in self help stuff, shes more a "lets work on this together and see where we get" type of person. So a lot of the things I am doing will be pretty revolutionary to her and I'm not sure how she'd take to them.
Anyway very soon I will have to have "talks" about talks with W to see how she wants to proceed. Can't do it to day cos she's just said to day is our day, a family day.
Lan
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing
