Oh no code my Dbing is not working either - sometimes we are just up against a brick wall - everyone says one day they will be sorry - our spouses - but not mine or yours right now - I fear in your sit and mine they will be sorry when it is too late - you sound like a loving father and you have tried everything - my heart is with you - Ive went back and read your whole story - sounds like you have been through hell as alot of us have - sorry about finding the truth about the A. Thats another dagger in the heart even if you suspected it. Thinking of you - hang in there - her A wont last with him - thats what Ive been told about my Hs affair - they never do - its a fantasy