There are still a few of us around on weekends, I'm sure they'll stop by. I really see not wanting to say no to time with the kids, play that the way you feel right about. But don't overstay your welcome, and make sure you still get some time for you. I think forgetting to do that is a big source of the troubles we have on our marriages, we forget hat we are still individuals, too, and our lives and emotions can get too intertwined with or spouses.