I do, but I'm not exactly sure how to do this when we share a house/see each other often. When he says, "When I come home tonight, stay for dinner." do I? I think for the kids it's good if they have us together as much as possible, but it makes it hard to GAL or appear aloof. I understand the part about backing off from the relationship (which I'm really trying to do, and am making progress), but I'm having a hard time with the physical space.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09