Ok, so you knew it. And now you know it at an even deeper level. It had to be. The driving force is almost always a sexual relationship.
But really, Blue, from what you've told us about her, you're the lucky one -- you are getting away from a he!!cat. I feel sorry for the guy. He doesn't know what he's getting into. He is going to feel the brunt of her fury next. I'd say wrap her up in a bow and give her to him!
