Joie,
H admits that they have been keeping touch and it is no secret anymore.

OW2...I thought something up.. Well, she is 20 years old college girl and OW2 and H are in the same program at the university. They 'study' together very often. He is trying to tell me that she is too young to do anything. He is 28. I hope he is telling me the truth this time otherwise I will be so dissapointed the person he is becoming.

Now, I really don't see our M will come back anymore. OW1 and he has started to 'see each other' since last year Feburary. The relationship lasted 1 year.... although the relationship is based on bull s**t. H told me he is not leaving her because she needs his support. Her father is very sick.

I will browse around this website and gain some power from you all. Good night!



I know we will never know and people change better or worse.


Me:31 H:29 D:7 S:2
M:7y Together:8y
found out his A :07/07
bomb:11/01/07
s: 11/15/07
OW-1 is out of state; other female friends around
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